JR,
Another thing to think about that I forgot to mention again, if you are flying with guys that have BW's you probably don't need them. Just don't be the first of your group to land a new place. Let them go first and sort out the safe line for you. I'll admit that 90% of my off-airport hasn't neeeded them in the end. However, I did need them to give me the balls to land in a spot with tall grass the first time, and a place where I couldn't see the best line and ended up rolling into some large rock, and a place that didn't look as muddy as it was. All of those places had better lines or spots to roll out with 8.50's, once I could step out and walk them. That's the key though, you have to land first to walk it! The other ten percent I was glad to have them, mud, rocks, rolling terrain, mostly when I made a bad call and got surprised they bailed me out.
Keep in mind as well that you are splitting hair over 25 lbs. While not nothing you could (If you don't have an old ADF to throw out!) off set that by leaving out three gallons of fuel and taking a crap BEFORE you leave. How often do you really land with three gallons in the tanks? If you normally land with six now you'll land with three. I also don't think I feel 25 lbs. difference where I'm going. At 12,000 msl Desert Rat has to think about that, skiing into the water off of a 100' gravel bar Greg and Lonnie have to think about that. At between 2500 and 6,000 msl in the desert, the occasional 600-800' gravel bar, reservoir beach, road stretch, and hay field I have yet to circle and say to myself "better not land there, I won't make it with that extra 25 pounds". As far as the gross weight issue when going on a trip I wouldn't worry about 25 pounds on that either.