I have a 63 P172D, 180hp Lycoming, CS prop. I had flap gap seals installed, mostly because I expected them to help cruise speed, and they do, by about 5-6 knots. If the seals hurt full flap performance, I can't tell it, and I have maybe 1500 hours or more in 172s. Do they help on take-off? I can't say that they do that, either. Their sole benefit appears to be to improve cruise speeds.
When I bought my airplane, it already had Madras droopy wingtips. They help with low speed control--and of course, they look cool!

I already have a very efficient exhaust--whoever cobbled it up when the engine STC was made did a great job, and my IA, who has installed several Powerflows, says that the only performance "benefit" I would get with a Powerflow would be a lighter wallet. Make sure your current exhaust system is unimpaired. My IA advises that most of his customers who have had him install a Powerflow notice a slight increase in performance, not nearly what Powerflow claims, but noticeable.
KN has a less restrictive air filter, and there are others as well, which also help a little. Make sure yours is clean.
There's no need to raise the nose with a fancy fork or by over-inflating the strut--if you do a soft field type of take off even on a hard surface and just raise the nose enough to get the tire off the surface, you've accomplished more than by installing an expensive after market fork.
Mine has manual flaps, but the electric flaps work fine, too--but at high density altitudes, you won't want to use any flaps for take off except for soft fields, anyway, until you swap the engine for a 180hp one.
I fly out of the Fort Collins and Greeley areas now, but for several years I instructed in 172s out of Laramie, 7277' MSL, often with DAs over 10,000'. You'd be surprised how well a stock 172 will perform, with proper technique.
Best bang for the buck?
Practice, practice, practice, with the airplane loaded as you intend to fly it. Any 172 can get into a strip that it can't get back out of, so practice take-offs as much as landings. If you can't get down and stopped in 600' without excessive braking at Denver's altitude, you aren't trying. But getting back off regularly in less than 1000' will take practice--but it's doable if you keep it light, don't raise the nose too high, and leave the ground in ground effect. Stay in ground effect until you get the speed up--it's easiest if you start with nose down trim. Raise the nose too high, and you'll just mush. Do it right, and you'll do fine.
Cary