If it's handling you're looking for, you should really consider a tri-pacer or even a Maule trike! Those planes will make that 182 feel like a lead sled, and they can haul a decent load if your DA's are below 3k...
Seriously though...
you're overthinking this by WAY too much. The right 182 for you is one you can afford, in good shape, within a day's drive of you. Everything past that...year, straight tail or slant tail or skinny or wide body...it's all just mental masturbation. Nothing that one gives you or the other takes away is nearly as significant as just getting a good airplane at a fair price without spending thousands of dollars looking at "select models" that are spread all over the country.
182's are pretty common...shop local and just buy a decent airplane at a decent price and don't get your panties in a wad regarding the differences between models.
A good example of any model is better than a marginal example of any other.I've dealt with people who wanted to know every minute detail about every possible option, and that's fine if you're buying brand new corporate jets...but it doesn't work when you're buying an aluminum box that's older than you are.