We didn't hang with the same crowd, he didn't do off airport, more of a go fast kind of pilot, but when I'd see him walking his dog while I was driving home, I'd stop and we'd BS flying, and we were both in the local construction scene here for a long time so know a lot of the same people.
Not a close friend really, but I had a lot of respect for him, and it crossed my mind to overfly the cemetary during the burial. But I immediately nixed the thought, "wouldn't be prudent". I didn't want to mar the occasion and make it about me...... So, I didn't, but I did make it to the wake party later in the day. Rode my bike there, he didn't have a strip at his property. The first person I saw was his only (adult) son, and he IMMEDIATELY says he had almost called me, as they were hoping I'd 'buzz" (his words not mine, ovderfly sounds better) the cemetary. Later, when I found his widow in the huge crowd, the first thing she said, was the same. Then another half dozen or so people who knew him well and me slightly, said the same. Days later I was still running into people who said they thought it would have been great if I would have over flown. I was feeling proud of myself for making such a mature and responsible decision, until then, still do really, but if I had it to do over again
