Buying a 185 seems like the cool thing to do lately. I bought mine in July and I know of one other purchase in addition to the two threads here.
I probably looked at 30 online and saw several in person before buying mine. The one I bought wasn't listed - I put out feelers like you are and was contacted by the seller. It was the first one I looked at in person that was pretty much as-represented.
I had a '54 180 for several years and spent lots of time in and around it doing mx and installing various mods, so was already familiar with the basic airframe. Having said that, the 185 is more different than I expected. Not hugely so, but they're different enough that it'd be nice to have someone familiar with 185s specifically to do the prebuy. I'm an A&P (though not by profession) and my local guru was way too busy to come with me for the prebuy, so I did it myself and sent lots of pictures and made lots of calls when I had questions. I spent the better part of two days on the inspection and still missed a few things. The seller was fantastic about letting me take things apart, so I don't have any excuse other than ignorance. Nothing major, but someone familiar would have caught them immediately (like they did during the subsequent annual). In my case, the electric fuel pump hadn't been overhauled for 22 years - it's supposed to be every 10. Once the new one was installed, it was clear that the old one was on its last legs. I also dodged a bullet because the gear was missing a couple of shims. Fortunately no damage as a result and the gear boxes are good. I've also spent a good 50 hours or so doing various nitpicky jobs. Cleaning up under the floors (fun), re-pinning a couple of connectors, cleaning up wiring, doing the SID 97-3 fuel injection setup, etc. Nothing that really HAD to be done, but stuff that my OCD side is happy with (actually I'm really glad I did the fuel injection setup, it was too lean at full power).
Mine has a history, as they all seem to. Both wings have been repaired over the years, a couple of prop strike inspections, and it was submerged in fresh water early in its life. Normally that would have been a deal breaker for me, but it was 33 years ago and any problems would likely have shown up by now.
On the plus side, it has fairly low time (~3500 hrs), complete logs, a new-ish prop, recent jackscrews, semi-recent bladders, good paint/interior, several STCs that I wanted and a great panel. It's well-rigged, flies hands off and is a joy to fly. It wasn't cheap, but I'd pretty much decided what Hammer said above - when an acceptable airplane came up, I'd grab it if the price was in the ballpark. Tough to get a deal on 185s unless you find one in an estate sale or know the seller already.
Now that I've put some time on the airplane, I can say without question that it's everything I wanted and way more. It's a blast to fly, very efficient (with GAMIs it's consistently 10.5gal/hr at 9500' and 130kts), is WAY easier to work on with the newer cowl (Camlocks are awesome), etc.
I know I don't need to sell you on the airplane, but in August I took the family to watch the eclipse in Idaho. Full fuel, the four of us and baggage literally to the ceiling in back and we were still more than 200lbs under gross. I'm absolutely blown away by what this thing can carry. When I was working up a bunch of weight and balance scenarios, just for grins I did one with full fuel, four 200 pounders and 150 lbs of bags.
Unbelievably, it's legal.