My wife is one of a kind, she is the dearest thing to my heart and I would sell the plane in a second if I had to decide, and she knows that.
She watched the video and she even made the monkey "beep". I wouldn't post it without her knowing, and she got a hellva laugh. I didn't go off and email it to all her family, but she had no problem with me posting it here. I've made many sacrifices and so has she. She knows how much I love flying and she supports it, even if it seems pretty dumb sometimes (like spending $$$ on plane tires). And yes, she know how much it cost, she saw the invoice.
I at least had the balls to tell her (wasn't easy), that was the day she got back from a 5 day cruise with her mom. (Wonder where that money came from

).
At any rate, you can make all the assumptions you want, but life and marriage are about sacrificing and giving, we both have that down pretty well IMO.
As far as being financially responsible.... well, that is something I am also passionate about. No credit cards were harmed in the making of this video (only bloody hands and many 80+ hours work weeks). We're an odd couple, but we might just make it.
Cheers
PS, thanks for the advice though, it's well received.