Thanks for all the gracious comments everyone, I'll pass them along. This particular family is really tight so they're going to take it hard. Darren had mothballed his flying for about 15 years to raise a family, he'd just dusted off his ticket at 38 and bought a nice plane. He had an enviable position of being able to justify flying for work between farms AND a grass strip on both ends. AT this point, I probably won't hear any more about what happened, they think he got into clouds and spun it in.