None of us want...
...to sit drooling in a nursing home. But you may very well be selling that drooling old guy short. I know a couple who were college athletes and won a chest full of medals during WW-2: came home, married beautiful wome, raised great kids and made a pile of money. I know another one who is 96 years old: a former International Airline captain who was the second man to ever be captain rated in a Boeing 747. He was a Marine Fighter Pilot in WW-2 with three kills. Quite a lady slayer in his time. Neither of those guys missed anything.
Truth is most of those slobbering, nearly senile old guys in the nursing home were vigorous, strong and ambitious in their time. If you are looking at the man you see now....you may well be missing the man that he once was.
Any damned fool can live to be 30 and get away with all kinds of crazy shit. Many of us did that. There is no glory in dying young. The lucky ones are those who had a great time, pushed the envelope and died in their sleep. May we all be so blessed.
As I told my 27 year old copilot and even younger flight engineer once when they were teasing me about being an "old man" at age 49....... "There is nothing special about being young." "Hell we all have been young." "I have already been where you are." "What is really special is getting to be where I am....still feeling good, healthy and enjoying life?" "Only God knows if either of you will ever make it."
Sound of crickets in the cockpit.....
Bob

