Points well taken. This is one of the big problems with the structure that we've sort of adopted in our flying:
First, we work on our PPL. Teaching is typically taught by someone who finished their PPL maybe a year ago, and just barely has dry ink on the Commercial and CFI. That person, if they are participating, can teach you the basics.
Now, you go fly.
Two years pass: Oops, time for a Flight Review. But, I'm in a hurry, cause I want to go flying. Hey, I've been flying twenty hours a year, so I'm good, right? All I really need is an hour of ground and an hour of flight. Find an instructor (like the previous guy, cause we know him, and he's not very demanding--we're in a hurry) and we're outta here.
Or, alternatively, you can find someone who has actually done the sort of stuff you would like to do, and tell them to give you as much instruction as it takes to do it right. Generally, that won't be all that much.
Now, you go out there on your own, and some things happen that you aren't real sure about, so you call that experienced instructor, and he or she explains to you what just happened.
Every year, you go back to that experienced instructor, or another equally experienced instructor, and get some instruction in something you haven't done before, INCLUDING at least an hour or two of ground for every hour of dual instruction. PAY for the ground school--its worth it, from the right person.
Keep picking at it, and keep finding different folks to fly with. Any time someone tells you to do something some way or other ask them to explain why. If they can't explain why, maybe, just maybe, they don't know what they're talking about. Or maybe someone told them this sometime, and they bought it.
Always ask why, and try to understand the issues and dynamics you are dealing with.
Don't learn by rote, in other words.
Keep going back. You can always learn some new skill or technique.
Every little insight makes you a better pilot, and better able to deal with the situation when the chips are down.
And, as you obviously already are, stay conservative. This is supposed to be fun, after all, and being afraid, or having to pay for a rebuild of your pride and joy isn't much fun.
There are folks out there who can offer lots of insights. Seek them out, and pick their brains. It isn't all done in the air.
And, fly safe.
MTV


