Here is a quote from my earlier post:
"1) You fly the airplane into ground effect, with a touch of power, and the tail 2 inches off the runway, or four inches--make yourself happy.
2) At the first touch, the throttle comes to idle, and the stick comes forward. DO NOT believe for a moment that all you have to do is "relax the backpressure" as posted by someone earlier. If you have nose down trim in at the touch, you can relax for one beat, then you'd BEST get that stick coming forward. If you don't, the airplane will remain nose up, and ANY gust of wind will cause issues. Period. The advantage of a wheel landing (other than you can see what's about to go under your tires) is that you get a NEGATIVE AOA on the wing--you unload the wing. It's not flying any more. Weight is on the WHEELS, not the wing.
3) the stick continues to come forward to keep the tail up, to maintain the attitude and keep the weight on teh mains.
4) as the elevator loses effectiveness, the tail will start to transition downward. Now's the time to transition to full AFT stick, to pin the tailwheel, and steer iwth it now.
Different airplanes prefer different techniques for different conditions. "
There should be emphasis on the last sentence.
Furthermore, nowhere in there did I say you should hold the tail up till it falls. There comes a point where elevator authority is decreasing, and that's a good time to transition to tail down. The speed of the plane at that point will be slow enough by then that you should have good control. I do not wait till I'm at a standstill to put the tail down, but I want to be dang sure it isn't going to fly again.
In any case, I've never met a tailwheel airplane that didn't require some forward stick to keep the wing unloaded, but I've not flown them all.
Again, remember that every airplane and every airplane loading is a different deal.
Sounds like we are all sorta describing a similar event in any case.
Ah, communications, ain't they grand

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Now, I will tell you that I have actually wheel landed and come to a complete stop with the tail still a couple feet off the ground. Wind was kinda stiff and I had two guys on each set of struts to keep it down. Try lowering the tail in those conditions. There was a "fair" breeze that day in Cold Bay, AK.
MTV