I am an newer owner with a modified -3 (230hp)and love my plane. I have also sat in and flown next to a -2 comparably set-up (220hp)for quite a bit. I love mine thus far...yes I think the -2 has better lines (the tail) and the -2 has a bit better performance (mine is 150pds heavier max gross but I also carry 10 extra gallons and have a full IFR panel and my engine weighs a bit more (I have the 0-470). Granted the tail is also a bit heavier and wont seemingly come up quite as quick (but we are talking a small difference). At sea level mine will come off in 250-300ft and climb like an SOB. Up here at 5300ft I can get off in about 7-800 feet and climb out about 1000-1200 FPM).
Crosswind-I have landed mine in a 19-20kt xwind (that is the actual component) and it was VERY stable and handled it just fine. This is about the limitation though ...especially when taxiing with the big tail. Although in any taildragger a 20kt xwind is about the top end (IMO) that you really want to play with unless its an emergency or you have an exceptional aircraft with exceptional skillz!

In my limited experience with them either a -2 or -3 is a very stable platform but also has a "nimbleness" to them at the same time. I often say it cruises like a 206 but will yank and bank more like a supercub.
I know some of my performance stuff is skewed with the big motor...but if you're thinking that way MAN it is one hell of a bird. I