Well, everyone is a little different on cold tolerance. Here's what I wear. Note, that while I have Nomex gear (gloves, thermals, jackets, coveralls) these aren't what I prefer. I do wear a lot of wool items, but also synthetics. At -40 my main concern is preventing frost bite and staying warm. It's a risk I take. I realize you are only single digits, but take some of the warmer weather hints, and ignore the really cold stuff... enjoy that nice winter weather!
GlovesFox River Gripper glove - I get these on sale cheap (under $5) and they are my go to glove for every temperature all winter. Above zero, I'll put these under a leather work glove. I use these as my preflight glove liners. Then as my main glove when flying. They are light enough for dexterity but still provide warmth.
Leather work gloves - just a basic set of deer skin leather gloves sized up for the wool liner. I waterproof these in Sno Seal which makes the glove perfect for winter. I'll brush snow and fuel with these gloves and anything else that requires more utility gloves. While I've used expensive OR, Ibex, Mountain Hardwear gloves, those are really just "ski gloves" and I tear them up pretty easy.
https://www.amazon.com/Atsko-Sno-Seal-1330-Atsko-Sno-Seal-Original-Waterproofing-7-Ounce/dp/B00CQJDQ90/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1481396624&sr=8-1&keywords=sno+sealKinco insulated gloves - once it gets too cold for just the leather/wool combo, I use an insulated Kinco glove. I haven't figured out my favorite, but I use and like these:
- Kinco 1938KWP -insulated reflective work glove, I got these for $4 a pair so I've been using these alot lately. They aren't as warm as some of the others, but I use them for preflight/fueling/loading at -40 and do fine. (About an hour of work)
https://www.amazon.com/1938KWP-L-1-Pigs ... co+1938KWP- Kinco 1927KW - probably my favorite. Nice glove, similar to the other but a bit warm.
http://www.kinco.com/product/1927kw/ - Kinco 901 Ski Glove - I'm still breaking these in. When you use sno seal, it really stiffens up the gloves. Once I wear them in, I think these will be my favorite as they feel the warmest.
http://www.kinco.com/product/901/MittensStill using the Fox River Gripper gloves as liner, I then use fleece mittens from Apocalypse Design and overmittens. These is my wet fall/spring combo for snow.
http://akgear.com/product/fleece-mittens/http://akgear.com/product/overmitts/When it's cold, I also have my Beaver mittens I made with webbing around my neck. I haven't found a better substitute than fur in the cold.
BaselayerWhen you are wearing thermals everyday, you get a collection. My favorite for cold weather are Smartwool thermals. They are alot thicker. I wear the Smartwool 250 and really like them. The Icebreaker 260 wool baselayers come in close second to the Smartwool. Really can't go wrong. I also like Patagonia Capilene (synthetic). Ibex makes good baselayer, but I get too many holes in mine (not as durable as the Smartwool or Ibex) so I've stopped buying them.
Mid LayerI like Patagonia R1 fleece bottoms and top (hoody version) for my next layer. I also have a collection of Ibex wool tops off varying thickness that I'll also wear like the Ibex Woolies Hoody. It really depends on the temperature.
Bibs/pantsFor flying, I'll wear Carhartt Insulated bibs or the insulated full zip pant (discontinued this year). If it's -20 I'll just wear thermals underneath the insulated carhartt. Colder than -20 and I'll add either fleece or a synthetic pant over top the baselayer.
I usually wear a soft shell pant over the thermals if I'm flying on skis. My favorite is the Mammut Traleika (not sure what the men's equivalent model is). This allows me to take off the bibs when I don't need that extra layer, but still stay dry.
I wear my bunny boots with gaiters (OR Expedition Crocodiles or Verglas) over my softshell pants. With this combo, I won't get snow in my boots, I can easily walk in deep snow, snowshoe, shovel, pack runways, etc. You always hear layering is key... Well I can tell you I don't need insulated carhartt bibs to dig out a stuck plane, but I do need them once I've stopped moving. Having the softshell is great.
Jacket and vest I'm a big fan of vests, mainly because they keep your core warm. My favorite is the Patagonia Down sweater vest. I can fuel up with a thermal top, and flannel shirt with a vest over top and be fine at -20. It as is more comfortable to fly in and I can just keep my jacket beside me. It also is helpful when I'm moving to not get too hot.
For jackets, I'll always have my parka with wolverine ruff called the "Alpine Parka". It's from Apocalypse Design (Fairbanks, AK company) and it is the best jacket for the cold we have up here. Now, most times, it's too warm to wear the parka, but it's an essential part of my cold weather gear. Plane with no heat last week, flying 3 hours and even with the inversion, it was -20F so I put my parka on and stayed nice and warm. When I landed this week and it was -48F, you bet I had my parka on. (Luckily I was only stopping in...)
http://akgear.com/product/alpine-parka/HatWool or fleece beanie and a Beaver fur trappers hat are my hats of choice.
Boots-10F and warmer
Salomon Mountaineering boots and a pair of wool socks keep me warm
-10F to -30F
Either Bunny Boots or Steger Mukluks. For the cub flying on skis and no brakes, I wear the big clunky bunny boots no problem. When I'm flying with brakes, I like the Steger Mukluks for the size, comfort, and ability to "feel" the rudder pedals. I won't go anywhere with just my Steger mukluks, as overflow and wet pretty much make them useless. I wear a pair of Neos Overshoe Navigator 5 overtop the Stegers. I've studded the overshoes for ice and they are great for moving the cub around in the winter. My feet have got cold at -20F with the Stegers flying a cub. Bunnies are my favorite. I combine Bunny Boots with a "Bama sock" which helps cut the moisture.
Bama socks
http://www.gear-up.com/products/view/ba ... bber-boots I shared more than you need, but figured it might help the colder crowds. Or persuade some to go to Hawaii and forget all the layers (it takes a good 10 minutes to get dressed to go outside!).
For you, get some thermals, a fleece, warm hat and gloves. For boots, any quality insulated boot should be fine for those temperatures. I use a mountaineering boot, but I'm accustomed to the cold weather. Also note, gear I recommended gets really expensive. It's not necessary, but this is what I like and use and on sale, makes the price just expensive instead of really expensive. I don't use electric jackets or hand warmers. I dress and wear clothes that have the ability to keep me warm.