No one should chastise a Bo owner for owning a Bo--great airplanes, fast, comfortable, incredibly sweet controls, and properly flown, are just as good on a grass or gravel as any other tricycle gear--maybe better than many, because Bonanza gear is hell for stout.
The key with any so-called high performance airplane is to slow it down to a reasonable approach speed, i.e., slightly less than 1.3 Vso. Too many owners of such airplanes think that because it's fast, it must be flown fast at all times, and they make approaches at mini-airliner speeds. Even some Bos with a stall speed of 55 knots, approach slowed to 70 knots works really well. Some models have stall speeds as slow as 48 knots, which knocks the approach speed down to 60 knots--and that's as good as most stock Cessnas. That also means that any 2000' strip is easy, because even at higher altitudes, the ground roll is reasonable at under 1000'.
Cary