There are many opinions on paint and everyone seems to have the answer to what "doing it right" means.
I certainly do not claim to be an expert but having done a lot of painting over the years, here are my thoughts..
Yes the "good old days" of paints are gone and yes the really good Imron is now gone, and for sure you cant buy good paint in CA anymore, but there still is a really hearty Imron that is a great flexible polyurethane industrial topcoat that really holds up well.
There are two basic methods of painting. Mechanical adhesion, and chemical adhesion. Chemical would be to "etch" the sub-strait, prime, and then top coat. Some say to alodine and then paint, and some say to use an acid-etch paint, prime, and then top.
Mechanical would be to physically disrupt the sub-straight (scuff or sand,) prime, and then top coat. Nothing beats this method, but the issue is the more you scuff or sand aircraft aluminum, the more integrity and in some cases corrosion resistance you loose...
I have painted with both methods with all kinds of products and certainly each has its own argument. I wont spend time dismissing other methods, but having experimented with most on many projects, all I can say is I choose to do a good prep, use a good two part epoxy primer a then single stage top coat. My favorite paint now is Imron 3.5 I have not used Stewarts in a high traffic area, but my inexperienced guess would be to say it's the wrong application. Im guessing folks have used it not because its the correct paint, but because they had it in the shop. I would also stay away from a "self-etching" primer like Variprime 615S.
With respect to which manufacturer you pick... Thats up to you. But when you look at the R&D budget of a company like Dupont (now owned by the Carlyle Group,) vs much smaller suppliers, its hard to make the argument that a smaller supplier has a more well thought out product... but then again, a ton of great shit has been born from two guys working out of a garage.
Of course there are many many variables that give a good durable paint job. Prep is king regardless of what system you use. Not to be snobby, but dont buy cheap shit or try to convince yourself that its "fine" cuz it aint. Use a good paint, an expensive gun, a moisture free air source from a LARGE compressor with a steady patient hand and you will be good to go. Oh and plan on getting cancer cuz that shit will put you in the ground!
Good luck!