Try thinking of it this way;
12 Qts Maximum is a limitation, and just like the minimum limitation, it may not be the best place to loiter. For some reason, tires and oil are two places people like to tank up, like for some reason having excess is going to guarantee success
Run it where it's happy (that means where it quits spitting). And if it goes below minimums before it quits, then fix the problem. hint; Phil's idea is a good place to start. MMO would also work, but Phil's idea is about 100 years more advanced.
Oil;
Ford vs Chevy... they're all good (and bad) I elect to use Phillips XC because I'm lazy. Phillips can be ran from break in to TBO and beyond... that means if I need to get in to a top, before I rebuild, I don't have to do the mental juggling about what oil to run now

. And if an additive package is what makes your 'plus' choice attractive, throw a pint of Camguard in each oil change. You'll have a far more attractive additive package, at a far better price point.
Take care, Rob