I only do wheel landing in all conditions every time, my wheel landing is usually on the tail low side until I get on the brakes. I can fly slower tail low but still see where I am going and what I might be about to hit. Take off it all depends how I am loaded, gross weight you don't have much choice then to wait until the tail is ready to fly. If I am light I pick up the tail with power 1 notch of flaps and go when she is just about ready to fly full flap then back to 2 as soon as I am climbing which is as soon as I am off the ground if I am light. Off airport in rough conditions requires in my opinion being light, at least the first trip in.... Flying an airplane to the maximum requires time in the seat, we can all talk about what works for us but I think for everyone the best thing you can do is go out and practice the different techniques and see what actually gets the best results.
A very well known person but I won't mention his name. He told me that I could not land as short using a wheel landing. I am talking crazy off airport landings not normal stuff that any tail wheel pilot can do, I took this person flying and by the end of riding around in my airplane he had changed his mind, a belief he had had for more then 40 years. The first time you try doing a 3 point off airport where you need 31" bushwheels and they seem a little small for what you are landing on you will understand that 3 points do not work for rough off airport conditions. Once you master a wheel landing you will realize how much more control you have over your aircraft, there is a difference between being able to do a wheel landing and have it be as natural a driving your car to the store. Part of the muscle memory that takes no effort to pull off.
Greg

