Lets try this one more time..................
Maybe you need to thank your guy, pay him and go get another one you can still be friends
My kids used to have this habit of asking a question then arguing about the answer lets try to get past that. I can tell you there are a few people at the supplier that have no clue what they can or cant do. I wont go into that here it wouldn't be fair to them, but let's just say there catalog may not completely match the PMA approval on file with the feds, a simple but overlooked application error
Its your plane not your mechanics always remember that, it will be you in front of the judge not him
It baffles me (airplane humor) how some guys just make a habit of complicating everything.
Pick up the phone call another FISDO and ask simply I HAVE AN A1A ENGINE CAN I PUT A PMA ALTERNATOR ON IT they will laugh and wonder why your really calling and if you tell them a long story of all the trouble up to this point they will go HOLLY SHIT and want to do a full blown investigation of you and your mechanic.
Or you may want to do this.......
Plane power AL12-70 make sure you reference the Lycoming part number for the old alternator in the log book
Plane power doesn't have STCs they are PMA and the 12-70 comes with all the mounts and brackets or you can get a 12-P70 no brackets and about 100 bucks less.
(O-360-A1A2, -A2A2, -A3A2, -B1A2, -B2A2, -B3A2, -C1A2, -C2A2, -C3A2, -D1A2, -D2A2, -D3A2, -E1A2, -E2A2, -E3A2, IO-360-A1A2, -A2A2, -A3A2, -B1A2, -B2A2, -B3A2, -C1A2, -C2A2, -C3A2, -D1A2, -D2A2, -D3A2, -E1A2, -E2A2, -E3A2)
Log book entry and a revised W&B your off and running
If you still don't believe it go to FAA PMA data look them up you will see all the PMA files that cover each engine
What they are currently telling you is they don't have PMA approval for your current other guy brand alt. Read the above steps closely