Are you being a pussy?
Nah.. I wouldn't go that far… Risk vs reward assessment is a personal choice. If you are not comfortable with that , who am I, or anyone else to judge that? I have many friends that make it clear they don't want just any Manny Moe or Jack in formation with them… That's cool
Myself? I'd never form up on a random person I didn't know, but don't really care who wants to ride on my wing tip… I also don't make a habit of buzzing boats, or four wheelers, but absolutely love it if I'm boating or biking and someone buzzes me… go figure?
Here's a thought; is it possible they
thought they knew you? TONS of people like to fly tight, maybe they thought you were one of their buddies?
Dangerous… lol… nah 250' is pretty far from precision... Once I've established visual contact, all but maybe 1% of danger is out… he's not in an F35 after all… And once I've satisfied myself that
he in fact has visual on me, well at this point we actually have to
try and wreck to succeed… BTW, I would much prefer the wayward aircraft to be the faster one, by definition, If I am slower, I am more
maneuverable...
Would I personally get too shook up about it? Not even. As illegal or uncouth as it may have been, THIS is how I've had some of my most rewarding personal - impersonal experiences.
As an ag pilot that works in between two very active ranges, it is almost ridiculous how often I will pull up in a turn to fin a CH-53, UH-60, or even C130 wing to wing with me… and quite frequently it is at night, with them blacked out. The first couple times it happened it was unnerving, now I pretty much look forward to it. Getting buzzed by one of the few local F5's frequently scares the sh!t out of me, but once I clean my shorts and compose myself, I rave about it…
As an owner of a property with an airstrip on it in the same region, I have been fortunate enough to have those same military, as well as CAP, care flights, and civilian types run the length of my strip at tree top level (and occasionally land), which is even closer yet… I love it!
But again, risk vs reward is a very personal thing, so shame on the guy that trampled your personal choice…
Take care, Rob