Like someone said, not much monday morning quarterbacking to be done. It's all right there in HD. There is something to talk about though, and that's why people continue to do this.
I'm convinced that the dangers of high DA continue to be a contributing factor to crashes because they are just one of those things that people unfortunately have to learn the hard way. Even though we're quizzed on the concept of density altitude and performance degradation gratuitously in the FAA curriculums, it seems that it doesn't make an impression on pilots until they've experienced it first hand. The way it's taught is very academic, students supply the right multiple choice answer, but the tangible risks are something that are never addressed in practical training. Poor climb performance while in cruise flight...say 9,500 climbing up to 11,500, usually just doesn't register because there isn't terrain staring you in the face. Also, many pilots don't experience the performance of their aircraft at max gross. How many stories have you heard about the low time pilot who buys a HP aircraft, and flies it alone 99% of the time...then one day loads his wife and another couple into it with full fuel and tries to takeoff from a high and hot airport? Classic.
I was chatting with ChrisG about this topic this morning, and I admitted that if not for my formative flying years spent reading this forum, with primary focus on mountain flying, I would probably not be as aware of a lot of mountain flying dangers like high DA. We take a lot of our knowledge for granted because we read it and discuss it daily here. Many pilots do not, and they find themselves in a scenario like this one, either completely ignorant of the performance limitations of their aircraft, or pressured to return 3 people to their schedules, and go for it with high hopes. Skills like thermalling and circling can't be relied upon when you don't have the lift margin to even bank 15 degrees.
If you witnessed this guy land heavy at Bruce Meadows, and he was prepping for takeoff, would you approach him with a little free advice? What do you say? We're a proud bunch, it's tough to hear criticism of our decisions, especially in front of your pax.