That's also the reason I won't lease my airplane to anyone. Back years ago, my pard in the TR182 and I allowed it to be rented to commercial applicants, because the FARs had just been changed to require a complex airplane to be used for the commercial checkride. Initially I checked out all of the pilots who were going to use it, and I was pretty picky about power control. But I was tied up when a particular pilot, Andy, wanted to be checked out in it, so he was checked out by one of the other instructors at the FBO, who wasn't nearly as persnickety as I was.
Pretty soon we started having plug fouling problems among other things, and then one day when I flew it, I couldn't get the gear to lock. After several attempts at retracting it and extending it, it still wouldn't lock--the green light wouldn't. So I tried to pump it down, and I couldn't get the telescoping handle to extend--it was jammed.
Long story short, I landed, and when I lowered the nose gear to the ground, the green light came on. I checked the flight records, and Andy had been the last pilot to fly it. So I called him, and after a little cross examination, I learned that he'd had some trouble getting the handle to go in after a mock gear problem, so he'd just hit it in with his hand. In reality, the pump handle was not down all the way, which is why it jammed, and because it wasn't down all the way, there was some bleed-by which was not allowing the electro-hydraulic pump to develop full pressure, sufficient to push the nose gear down enough to lock. But somehow, when I lowered the nose gear to the ground, it locked anyway.
In that conversation, Andy also said that he had been flying the airplane at much reduced power settings, and he was bragging about the low gph reading he was getting on the fuel flow meter, but even so he was still flying around 120 knots!!! He was flying an airplane that trues at over 165 knots at only 120 knots, less than 172 speeds!!! My pard and I discussed it, and we banned Andy from further flying our airplane. We had no problems with the other half dozen pilots who flew it.
But it's sure a fact that in general, non-owners just don't care for things the way owners do. Rental cars, rental airplanes, rental houses, all get mistreated. The difference is that mistreated airplanes can fail as a result of being mistreated, and people can die.
Cary