What Mike said. Half flaps on most planes is a good evaluation setting, lets you get slow enough to put as much weight on the turf as you want to test, but still enough lift to get you off quickly if it doesn't feel right. On a lot of planes the last notch of flaps is at least 50/50 lift/drag, and on some planes (like mine) more drag then lift so that setting should be saved for landing once you are slowed up and are ready to quit flying and get the plane on the ground.
A good friend says "there is no landing so bad that it can't be salvaged". Of course what he is really saying is that "there is no landing so good that you can't do a go-around". Approach every landing everywhere with that mindset, with the exception of one-ways of course. We humans are creatures of habit, and under any sort of distraction or pressure we will resort to habit. Treat every landing at every airport everywhere as a short field landing and you will be served well when the pressure is on.



Push WAY back as far as possible and everybody park on the same side so you can leave a ground escape route.