Take these comments with a grain of salt. I'm not a builder, but I've been around enough barns and hangars that maybe these thoughts would be useful.
For the back poles, add poles laterally about 2' outside the existing poles. Then remove the existing poles. That will give you 4' extra room, enough for the Six's tail, without compromising strength to any appreciable degree.
You could do that with the front poles, too, although if you put in permanent wheel chocks, that might not be necessary. I currently have permanent chocks in my hangar, screwed into the concrete, so that I can push my airplane back as far as necessary to keep my little power tow thingy attached--gives me maybe 2" of clearance to the doors. I agree, though, don't rely on remembering to lower the flaps. Better to have it chocked so that it stops a couple of inches short of the poles.
Finally, don't succumb to sliding doors. No matter how they're built, they'll be a pain in the neck in wind, snow, rain, or dark of night. Horrible, in comparison to bifolds, California lifts, and sectionals. If it were mine, I'd probably go with bifolds, but a sectional would be a good alternate. I'm not too fond of California lifts, largely because of the danger of something being parked too close when it goes up.
All that FWIW.
Cary