Thanks all, I love this site (and aviation in general) for all the helpful people.
In the interest of brevity I’ll try and address comments in one reply.
GBFlyer and CenterHill, I’ve been locked on the cowl/horizon perspective, trying to maintain the right attitude. We typically land fairly near the shore so the peripheral aspect is available but I don’t think I’ve really been using it. I’ll mix in some glances downward too, that might help me anchor the whole process.
Gary, I’m usually pretty good at watching and learning but it isn’t working as well this time. I know what to do intellectually but my brain and reflexes are not working with adequate coordination. I sat in the plane for 40 minutes before our last flight, working the yoke, trim and throttle trying to drive in the muscle memory of descent, flare, add power, touchdown, hold attitude, pull back power. It definitely helped but I’m still not 100% "in the moment" in that critical phase of flight. I’m concentrating on touchdown and missing the right amount of power to arrest sink or I’m focused on the sink and losing the attitude a bit or everything works out perfectly and I grease it on.
With input thus far, I think the right answer is to break the process down and isolate the steps so that I don’t get overwhelmed when they all happen at once. I’m embarrassed to admit I’ve never really practised holding a precise altitude in ground effect with power and I think adding/removing power to compensate for sink/balloon is the variable that is creating the most confusion.
