Todays flex agents give temporary flex to the paint, so that the flexible part can be manipulated into place on the vehicle. My paint rep tells me it drys out in a couple of months and become just as brittle as non flexed paint. Back in the day , flex agents kept the paint flexible. EPA rules or tighter profit margins has ruled out the good old flex agent. I went to a few Akzo Nobel (Sikkens) paint courses in the late eighties and early ninties and they had a nerf ball painted with flexed single stage paint. It was soft and flexible over the 4 year period that I went to their training center. ( 4 one week courses, it ain't college).
I have sprayed hundreds of gallons of single stage paint in the last 35 plus years of being in the paint business. About 18 years ago I was painting a Twin Otter for a skydiving business at their hangar. The owner was trying to keep costs down. I talked to the local paint rep and ended up using PPG AUE-300 polyurethane paint. It is a very inexpensive, but decent paint. The Otter came out pretty nice for basically painting it out side and held up good over the years.
Fast forward to a few years ago. I was painting a homebuilt for a customer using Aerothane. The paint worked great, it mixed and sprayed exactly like AUE-300 which I used on many airplanes, trucks and equipment over the years. When you finish painting there is always some catalyzed paint left in the gun. You dump it in a mixing cup and let it harden and end up with a hocky puck of flexible paint. I had saved a few of the AUE-300 pucks to show customers how flexible and tight it remains even when it is 1 inch thick. Well, I ended up with a couple of aerothane pucks also from painting the homebuilt. They were Identical. I would put them out side for months at a time and every once in a while check them for there shrinkage and flexibility. Over a 4 year period the Aroethane and AUE-300 pucks were identical. Neither cracked or lost their flexibility.
I talked to people at PPG about there paint for fabric covered airplanes. There paint is called Desothane. It is only sold to customers who relabel it and sell it. I was unable to buy Desothane from PPG, it is only sold in massive bulk. I kept digging and asking question. I was at a ppg sponsered event and a very knowledgeable rep was answering questions during the seminar. When the seminar was over I struck up a conversation with him. I asked him about Desothane, He, in not so many words, told me that Desothane and AUE-300 were basically the same paint. Desothane is certified, AUE-300 is not. I don't know for sure that the flexible polyurethane paints sold by popular aircraft companys is Desothane, but I do know from experience that they Look, work, smell, mix, and spray the same. I have sprayed AUE-300 on the fuselage of an Avid flyer a few years ago and it is holding up fine. AUE-300 is half the price of any certified paint.
All that being said, I personally wouldn't use polyurethane paint on my own fabric covered airplanes. I find Polytone to work great. It is light, easy to spray, and very repairable. It can be buffed to a high shine that looks like a hand rubbed lacquer job. I dont think that Polytone will go over Ekofill. I wouldn't try it.