Matt,
Next time you go to fly, just sit in the plane for a bit after your run up. Get a REALLY good sight picture, particularly figure out where the horizon line cuts across the cowl. Fix this in your mind and your peripheral vision.
For a three point landing, this is the precise attitude you need to rotate to prior to touchdown. Not higher. This is one of the things many people have trouble with: over rotation....they start the flare, and continue to raise the nose. Don't. In the flare, rotate precisely to this three point attitude, then stop the flare. If it happens you're a tad too high, add just a SQUEAK of power. It takes hardly any power to soften the descent...too much and you'll float forever.
For a tail low wheel landing, you flare and rotate to ALMOST that three point attitude, but just a smidgen less angle of attack. Ideally, I want the tailwheel an inch or two off the runway when the mains touch, but the tailwheel is NOT touching until I'm ready to put it down. Again, you can use a LITTLE bit of power, which both helps soften the touch and also allows you to fly to a slower speed prior to touchdown, but here the power is permitting you to fly to a higher angle of attack prior to the touch. RIGHT at the touch, the yoke comes forward at least some. This pins the mains on the runway, loads much of the weight of the plane onto the mains, and gets the tail (and rudder) up into nice clean air. Remember, tail low, that rudder and vertical fin are operating in VERY disturbed air coming off the flaps....and those are BIG flaps. So, at the touch, yoke forward to more or less level the airplane (tail up, level flight attitude), continue the yoke forward till the tail begins to stall, then lower it to the runway, and yoke comes all the way BACK.
Rolling in some nose down trim just prior to landing really helps most folks in that what most of us subconsciously WANT to do after landing is relax.....With the trim nose down, at the first touch, all you have to do is relax that back pressure you've been holding against the trim to keep the tail down, and voila! Airplane rolls on, tail comes up, and now you just have to steer it. Sorta. One moment later, of course, you need to keep the yoke coming forward to keep it pinned. But, that nose down trim gives us a half second to relax, and THEN react. Its really very natural.
Beware the "neither fish nor fowl" landing, where the tailwheel is kept slightly off the runway, but with a very nose high pitch attitude. Because of that disturbed air coming off the flaps and fuselage, that tail low attitude gives the rudder MUCH less authority in this attitude. Look at your plane sitting on the ground and try to visualize the air coming off the inboard ends of the flaps.....
I'm not sure what you're describing with the "flat wing" descriptions.....but hopefully, this has explained what I advocate.
More or less.
Spring gear airplanes are nothing sophisticated...and actually, the 180 has about the nicest spring rate to weight of any of the stock Cessnas, in my opinion. But, they do take a little more getting used to than some other gear types.
Finally, I tell everyone who's moving into a new to them Cessna taildragger......Get the thing put on grease plates and verify the gear alignment. I have seen people acquire a Cessna, fly it till it scared the crap out of them, then sell it....mostly because the gear was out of alignment. A while back I was told by a VERY experienced sprayer who's flying a turbine Air Tractor that I must be really good, cause the only tail dragger he's flown that scared the shit out of him was a Cessna 170. I told him I could tell him EXACTLY what was wrong with that airplane. I blew my cover....

Never attempt to dissuade a fellow who thinks you're good...
Sometimes, the gear is close enough in alignment that you won't even notice it MUCH unless you're in perfectly calm winds.....Sometimes, they're flat ugly. In any case, it's pretty easy to CHECK the gear alignment, and well worth the effort and $$ in my opinion. Gear's well aligned?? Then that swerve was ALL me
MTV