Thanks for all the replies!
Bagarre: I am not licensed yet. I have flown a few times and am waiting until I get back from this next deployment to start training. My thought is to get the plane so I can train in it as well.
Jet966: I will look more into the Stinson 108, haven't looked into it at all yet. Thanks for the idea!
Whee: My idea for wanting to own a plane is backcountry flying, off-airport landing, remote camping and traveling. I feel the Bearhawk 4 place fits that bill pretty good, especially with a good cruise speed for traveling. I'd love to never commercially travel again, even if it means a few days trip to go across country. I am willing to sacrifice some of that stuff such as cruise speed and useful load in order to get experience now versus waiting. I didn't know a Bearhawk investor made that statement, but that makes me lean really far towards the Luscombe 8. I have read a lot of good things about that aircraft.
A1Skinner: I'll have to look more into the Citabria's to see how if it could fit the bill.
M_Moyle: I wish I could find a Pacer for $18k! Although the few I have seen have a yoke. Are there some models with a stick? Same with Taylorcraft, although I have seen some pretty good deals on those.
Hockeystud: I am very excited to build my own plane, and I wouldn't be nervous to fly in someone else's home-built, but I am not sure I would want to inherit any gremlins that come with one. Maybe I am way off, but I just foresee some weird gripes that would be traced back to some weird trick they set up that worked for them. Maybe I am thinking too much into it and it would probably be fine with a thorough inspection before purchase. It could be a great option, especially considering the ease of maintenance. I might reopen this door.
Jcadwell: Ya, trying to not do the loan deal. It's great to get people into flying as Bagarre said, but if I can avoid it I will. I will need to keep my debt/income ratio as good as possible for purchasing our forever home. I do expect my wife to fly with me, she really enjoys it. I hope to have a hangar and keep it stored inside. I do plan to travel with it, but I am ok with it being a less capable traveler in the interim.
Again, thanks for all the replies and good ideas, I've got some more research to do. I think as it sits I am leaning toward a Luscombe 8 or possibly a kitfox if there is a good deal to be had in my price range. Admittedly I haven't searched for those yet, so I am not sure what they are going for right now.