Not all "flying days" are created equal... I've lived in the desert for about a quarter century and can share that a clear blue day in july in some of the afore mentioned spots is still no fun... Unless of course you are into soaring...
While I live in AZ, if I didn't work here I probably wouldn't live here. Flagstaff, Payson, Sholow, Heber... Those I could do the rest has too many 100*++ days...
Southern NV is similar to AZ only worse...flying any time after about 9 am is hotter than heck and rougher than a cobb...Northern NV has some very nice places, but it gets plenty cold in the winter. I have a Orovada resident wintering at my ag strip for that very reason...
There is a small airpark in the Sacremento Mountains of New Mexico in a community called Timberon. The community never took off well as the only way into it used to be a 2 hr. dirt road from Cloudcroft. Now there's a paved 4 lane road, but it still remains pretty slow paced there. It is very close to El Paso by air. Just south of Ruidoso. Feild elev. 5959. I have a couple lots on the airstrip that I haven't done anything with yet... someday

There is a guy who at last count owned 7 lots there. I understand he just sold 2 and has 2 others listed. These are adjoining lots which is a must as the airstrip lots are too small in my opinion (1/2 acre ea.) Might meet your criteria.
Like others, I haven't found the perfect "one place" The last couple years has found me splitting living between the KS, CO, NE corner in the spring /summers and SW AZ in the fall / winter. Works for me!
Good luck! Rob