Thanks for the thoughts Rob and Phil, yes I know you will be watching this one closely Phil
And I wasn't going to make any comment until I had sorted the problem but given I now have a bit more time (see below) I thought I should put it out there again for anyone that can add to the knowledge base on this.
So lets start.......it's a Cessna 185F with io 520, MT prop, new style starter adapter, old Energizer starter motor and firewall forward Odyssey battery.
Scenario One. Starter starts slowing, prop hangs a bit then fires, thought it was the battery, replaced with new Odyssey so plenty of cranking. One start cold = no problem. Taxi to pumps, fill up with gas, fire up (hot start) prop swinging flat out. Didn't fire, took hand off key and prop stopped abruptly (no
noticeable kickback). Turned key again just to hear the whirr of the starter motor. Aircraft luckily at an aerodrome where adapter was sent away and broken spring repaired. Aircraft out of the air for a week and I subsequently lost work which was instead done by a helicopter (just to rub salt in the wound..

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Pick up aircraft all good, new spring and away I go.
Scenario Two. About 40hrs later. Fly into a remote airstrip with punters, shut down to drop off and attempt start up for a second load. Hot start, prop swinging well but didn't fire as per usual straight away on the hot start. Took hand off key and exact same chain of events as scenario one with no noticeable kickback. Except this time I'm stranded at a remote airstrip.

and I'm not willing to risk flying it with a broken spring in there.
Call in another aeroplane to extract ourselves and get on the phone to get this problem sorted (Niagara, MT etc etc). In the meantime weather forecast at remote strip looks decidedly rough with high winds, thankfully got a couple of friends to fly down by helicopter to lash it down better and dig in the wheels while I wait to get engineers in there. IF I have an aircraft still tied down by the time the engineers get there this is what I'm planning to do.
Replace 'new style' adaptor with an overhauled 'old style' adaptor
Check starter motor torque before refitting (and fly a spare in in case mine is out of spec)
Check mags, impulse coupling and timing
Cross my fingers and toes
If there is anything else that could be suggested that I should be doing please let me know. I have been forced to learn a whole bunch of stuff since this has happened about TCM starter adapters so there is some reasoning behind my plans and think I am on the right track
I will post about the outcome good or bad.