Agreed, Flaps in general do not do anything with the
airflow that makes the tailwheel stay up, it is the change in the center of lift when applying flaps (during a landing) that helps lighten the tail. Even this is an over simplification, because different flap / wing designs act differently. A cub with heavily drooping ailerons will want to pitch the nose up on aileron droop, consequently applying droops and flaps together nets no appreciable difference in the tail weight.
Discussing this stuff is great to get the mind going and new techniques in your pocket, provided that
A) you keep an open mind, and
B) you understand that not all planes, pilots, nor missions are equivalent. Just because a person paints lines on the ground and repetitively comes up with a performance parameter, does not mean it is going to work for you, nor does it quantify that it won't.
This time last year we had a guest at our home strip. He stayed all winter long with the sole mission of winning the Valdez competition. He flew from dark till dark
every day it didn't rain (it never rains here) He shot more take off and landings on my strip in that time frame than most people will in ten years. Very early on, as an outside observer I made a few comments on things that were subtle enough they could not be detected from the cockpit while flying. In reviewing this Frank set up one off instrumentation that was truly ingenious, coupled with markings and cameras everywhere. It became very clear that not all techniques could be used in a 'blanket statement' fashion, and some of the most subtle things made differences that when combined with others could make or break the day.
Of course Frank went on to win Valdez not in class but completely over all, not in a fire breathing O-375 powered uber cub, but in a simply wonderful J3, flown by a pilot with dedication and attention to the little stuff. IMHO That's what makes the difference... We can joke and poke and suggest that when a pilot discusses feel and technique that others don't have the time or patience to achieve, that it doesn't exist or that pilot is now comparing himself to a Jedi, but it is simple fact. Someone has to be Kirby Chambliss, Wayne Handley, and Frank Knapp. And the fact that the techniques that they hone are not perceptible to most of us mere mortals does not negate them...
If it works for you flap away, if doesn't, don't knock it, just move on...
You can view more about Frank here, it is a truly great story. Those of you that have spent time at my home strip will recognize the practice sessions

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http://www.eaavideo.org/video.aspx?v=3081342584001